love is luck?

Love...


“Love is blind, don’t know when one will open one’s shut eyes!”

Do you think it is one own luck or it’s one own “good choice” to have a “good” significant other? People said, in love, you should not care about other things, just accept her/him for who s/he is, love the good side and also the bad side! "Yêu nhau yêu cả đường đi lối về". However, where is the limitation? What is the boundary line? Do you set out a limit, which s/he cannot cross over? What if s/he passes the line, what should you do? How many people like the idea of unconditional love?

Or just say you love one so dearly, so you cherish and spoil one; don’t want to upset one; don’t want one to get mad at you when you say No. Would you close your eyes for every single thing that s/he does, even though sometimes you don’t really agree with one’s behavior, or you just think that “That’s how s/he is, I love her/him, and I have to accept that.”

It’s maybe all because you didn’t want to loose her/him. S/he is still good in your heart and your eyes, no matter what people say, and sometimes you even tried to defend for her/him by saying “you are jealous with her/him, you don’t understand her/him, it’s all because you don’t know her/him enuff, s/he is a good person overall etc.” You defended for her/him because you really meant it or because you MUST to? You didn’t want her/him to get mad at you “why didn’t you say nor do anything?” or because you felt that you are now a loser (for being with her/him), and you just tried to deny the truth? Or would you “wake up” and try to think about what people said, try to "really" understand why people said so? Then if you are awaken enuff to see that people were right, then what are you gonna do next???

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by Tranielle MH
wrote sometimes in 2006